simple tips especially for the married will guide you on how to make your woman desire you like never before.

 

These simple tips especially for the married will guide you on how to make your woman desire you like never before as you will be let-in the amazing secrets of love that never fails.

Because women are more concerned with intimacy and passion than orgasm, many women would rather cuddle than have a mediocre sexual experience. My professor Dr. Sandra Leiblum, one of the most prominent se x therapists, once said that "for women to want se x it has to be se x worth having."

Therefore, to sexually motivate your girl, you have to work on making se x exciting for her so that she considers it a priority over running errands or getting an extra hour of sleep. Dr. Victoria Zdrok, gives the most sought after tips on how to make your woman run after you like a hot cake. Here are some of the ways to do it:

1. Improve the ambiance

Women are a lot more distractible than men. We have difficulty tuning out loud noises like your barking dog or blaring TV lights, or ignoring the noxious smells of rotten food emanating from your messy kitchen. Yes, that means turning off the television, dimming the lights, feeding your dog, turning up your thermostat, taking out the trash, and changing the dirty sheets! (If the thought of having to do all this depresses your se x drive, hire a maid service).

Then, set the mood at "sexual heat": put on her favorite music, prepare her favorite drink, light some scented candles, and spray some fragrant air freshener in your bedroom and bathroom (for some great ambiance enhancers, try ScentsOfHumor.com). It may sound "wussy" to go to such trouble to seduce a woman who is already attracted or committed to you, but women turn on to such stimuli, both on an unconscious level through their senses and in consciously thinking, "He cares." That thought alone will get her in the mood for se x.

2. Prolong the foreplay

The old clich is true: women love foreplay! Foreplay does not mean immediately grabbing her clitoris. Real foreplay means starting out as far from her genitals as possible — holding her face, stroking her hair, kissing her temples, gazing into her eyes, or rubbing her neck and shoulders. Learn some massage techniques and gently try a few on her head, neck and shoulders. If you really want to get her going, get an "Amazing Hot Massager Kit" available at LoversChoice.tv.

3. Be more sensual in your caresses

A majority of women prefer soft, tender touches and strokes all over their body until they get fully aroused. Se x therapists call this type of touch "non-demand touch" or "pleasure-focused outercourse." Don't just grab her breasts or butt. Instead, let your hands slowly reach those goals with long, gentle caresses. When she is fully aroused and dripping with desire, she may love the rougher play; but reserve that Neanderthal brute in you for the actual intercourse.
   If your hands are rough due to your occupation, sports or a day of working on your car, try massaging her with a sensual glove from MinkGlove.com. If you are just not the touchy-feely type of guy, invite her to slow dance to a romantic instrumental playing on your stereo, or take a shower or bath together and wash her body from neck to toes with some sensual scented soaps and other bath products.

4. Be a great kisser

To be an expert kisser, start gently and work up to more passion in gradual stages. Begin by barely brushing your lips against hers, and then touch her lips with the tip of your tongue. Relax and open your lips as you deepen the kiss, but avoid drooling, slobbering or heavy vacuum sucking.

If you are worried about bad breath, be sure to brush your tongue as well as your teeth, especially if you have been drinking coffee or smoking. If you can't brush, chew on a lemon peel or a mint, or pop a self-dissolving oral care strip (made by Listerine) into your mouth before beginning. You can also try a Menthol Kiss by applying lip balm with menthol or mint such as Carmex and gently rubbing your lips against your partner's to share the tingle. Try keeping eye contact by not closing your eyes while you kiss. For many women, this deepens the connection and supercharges their se x drive.

5. Use verbal reinforcement

In our society, which idolizes perpetual youth and often sets unrealistic beauty standards, many women feel insecure about their looks and self-conscious about their naked bodies. When a woman feels insecure, she is unlikely to be in the mood for se x. To increase her sexual responsiveness, tell her between kisses and as you touch her body that you find her beautiful and se xy, that she turns you on, and that you want to enjoy every part of her body before making love to her.

Pay her some specific compliments — tell her you love her warm smile, or her soft skin, or the shape, size and feel of her breasts, or her silky hair, or her melodic voice. And don't wait for se xual moments to trot out such verbal reinforcements. The more often you can convince her that you find her desirable and attractive, the more often she will desire se x.

7. Explore her fantasies

Ask her to tell you her fantasies or to email them to you. Encourage her to describe them in detail, like the stories in "Penthouse Letters." The intimacy that such a confession produces will be se xually arousing for her. But be prepared for the unexpected. If she discloses that the thought of being with another woman (or Brad Pitt) turns her on, don't get flustered or insecure.

Instead, exploit it to your advantage. While you are kissing and caressing her, spin a storyline that matches her fantasy. Whisper it in her ear and let her chime in with her own details — which you can use to direct your lips and hands. If her mind equates your touch with her deepest fantasies, she will start getting wet at your first caress.